Tamra Fights Back! ‘RHOC’ Star Judge Slams ‘Delusional’ Ex Simon Barney’s ‘Flat-Out Lies’ About Her Alleged Child Abuse In Explosive New Court Docs — Insists 'The Only Abuse Our Children Are Suffering’ Is From Him!

Now it’s Tamra’s turn! Real Housewives of Orange County star Tamra Barney Judge has seen her reputation dragged through the mud during her bitter custody battle with her ex, Simon Barney, who has accused her of child neglect and other bad mom behavior. But RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned that she’s fighting back in a big way in new court documents, insisting Barney’s accusations are “flat-out lies” and that “the only abuse our children are suffering” comes from him!

Judge made the shocking new statements in a declaration filed in Orange County on June 13, which serves as a response to the bitter rant Barney filed back in March.

Regarding that explosive filing by her ex, she says, "I am dismayed at the extent of the inaccurate statements, self-serving manipulated contentions of fact and flat out lies” it contained.

"The entire basis for Simon’s motion for full custody of our children is based upon what he perceived as some type of abuse by me daring to request that any of our children appear on Real Housewives of Orange County,” Judge's declaration continues. "With regard to this first alleged basis, ironically Simon had no issue with our children being on RHOC when he himself was on the show, and when we were married and he stood to financially gain from such.”

READ Tamra’s Explosive Comments About ‘Delusional’ Simon’s ‘Lies!'

Barney had also claimed in his own declaration that Judge "did not treat our son Spencer’s injured thumb with the urgency he felt it deserved” when the child jammed it during a rugby match.

Now, Judge insists, "I did not neglect 13-year-old Spencer with regard to his thumb … I asked Spencer if he wanted to go to the doctor because I was ready and willing to do so and bring him there if the level of his discomfort necessitated such. Spencer did not tell me anything to lead me to believe he was in any pain, and I did not personally see any behavior out of the ordinary to make me believe he was in any pain.”

In short, Judge says “delusional” Simon’s entire declaration was a calculated move "to villainize me in the media knowing that the journalists who hang on every word he chose to put in the public file.”

She insists, The only abuse our children are suffering at this time stems from Simon’s own self-serving declaration and his various exhibits … to fulfill Simon’s desire to publicly defame me."

Judge does admit that she and 15-year-old daughter Sidney " have had a strained relationship of recent.” But while Barney claimed in his declaration that the child’s therapist thought she was suffering from “anxiety” related to the split, Judge claims, “Simon has completely lied, under the penalty of perjury,” and that the therapist said no such thing."