EXCLUSIVE: Revealed — How Kate Middleton Is 'Quietly Rebelling' Against the Royal Family Despite Being One of Its Last Stars

Kate Middleton is "quietly rebelling" against the expectations of royal life by stepping back from her public duties to live more privately following her cancer diagnosis and recovery – a move insiders tell RadarOnline.com reflects a deep shift in her priorities.

The 43-year-old Princess of Wales, who announced she was in remission earlier this year after undergoing chemotherapy in 2024, has told close friends she wants to "slow down" and "completely simplify her life," even if that means disappointing royal aides who want her to resume a fuller schedule.

Her recent decision to pull out of the Royal Ascot horse racing event, despite previously planning to attend alongside her husband Prince William, is being seen within palace circles as a symbolic act of quiet defiance – and self-preservation.

A senior royal source told us: "Kate understands now that life's too short to keep agreeing to every demand. Her cancer battle really shifted her perspective. She wants to put her family, her wellbeing, and her peace of mind first. It's not rebellion for the sake of drama – it's about setting her own rhythm, even if that means quietly resisting royal expectations."

Kate's gradual return to public life after cancer treatment began with high-profile appearances at Trooping the Colour and the Garter Day service in June. But when she withdrew from Ascot just two days later, aides were quick to stress the decision reflected her commitment to recovery.

"She's stopped trying to please everyone," a source said. "Her outlook is different now, and she's finally paying attention to what her body and mind need."

Sources say behind the scenes, the princess is determined to create a "healthier balance" allowing her to be more present at home with her kids Prince George, 12, Princess Charlotte, 10, and Prince Louis, 7.

One insider explained: "She's finally learned the power of saying no. Before her illness, she felt a huge responsibility to shoulder the demands of royal life with William. Now, she understands she can serve without losing herself in the process."

The shift hasn't gone unnoticed within royal circles, with some courtiers reportedly frustrated by her new boundaries.

"There's definitely been some quiet friction," another palace source said.

"Some senior royals want her to increase her workload now that she's in remission. But Kate's been firm that she'll come back at her own pace – she refuses to be pushed."

Friends say the princess' outlook has changed dramatically since her diagnosis, with health and serenity now her main priorities.

"Kate's craving a simpler, more grounded life," a family friend said.

"She's no longer chasing constant appearances or endless engagements. What she values now are quiet mornings with her children, walks with the dog, and peaceful days at what she is calling her 'forever home' of Forest Lodge in Windsor Great Park, far from the spotlight. That's her idea of real happiness."

Those close to the mother-of-three say William has been "fully supportive" of her desire to slow down, even as the couple prepare for future responsibilities.

"William knows exactly how much Kate's endured," said a royal insider. "He admires her for drawing boundaries and protecting her wellbeing. They both realize she'll play a crucial role in the monarchy’s future, but her health has to come first."