EXCLUSIVE: Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's 'Amicable' Split Takes a Turn – Actor's 'Demeaning and Rude' Behavior Leaves the Singer Furious as the Exes Still Try to Sell Marital Mansion

In public, Ben Affleck has been gracious about his failed marriage to second wife, Jennifer Lopez.

"I have nothing but respect," the 53-year-old told GQ in March, adding that there was "no scandal, no soap opera, no intrigue" in his split from the pop star, 56, RadarOnline.com can reveal.

Indeed, his company produced her movie Unstoppable, as well as the upcoming musical flick Kiss of the Spider Woman. Now, an insider told RadarOnline.com that behind the scenes, things aren't quite so amicable.

In fact, the Oscar winner, who split from J.Lo in April 2024 after just two years of marriage, is no longer returning the On the Floor singer's calls.

"She's stopped leaving messages or texts because he never answers," says the source. "It's so demeaning and rude."

According to the insider, when Jen reached out to her ex on his birthday, he didn't engage, which is par for the course.

"Once in a while, Ben will get back to her with the bare minimum or a 'like' to one of her questions, but 99.9 percent of the time, it's all being handled by his lawyers or assistants."

It's frustrating for the star because the pair is still trying to unload their $68 million Beverly Hills, California, home – not to mention they'll have to promote Spider Woman together.

Said the insider: "It's driving J.Lo absolutely batty."