The star, who is a mother to daughter Zoe, and transgender son, Jesse, both 9, told PEOPLE that Lopez’s remark about not believing your young kids when they tell you they’re trans made her realize that parents need to educate themselves on these subjects before mentoring their children.
“When a child feels comfortable and open, identity issues are able to be discussed in the family environment,” Barshop, 54, said. “I believe living in creating an open and positive home so they are able to express themselves.”
The reality star even revealed what her son said when she told him about Lopez’s remarks.
“He said, ‘Why don’t you tell him that we learn about this in 5th grade and he needs to go back to 5th grade.’ It shows how evolved our children are and hopefully the adults will catch up,” she said.