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A Family Torn Apart: 'RHOC' Star Tamra Barney's Estranged Daughter 'Not Invited' To Hawaiian Vacation -- ‘I Wouldn’t Have Gone Anyway,' She Declares

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Apr. 16 2014, Published 6:15 a.m. ET

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Tamra Barney's relationship with her 15-year-old daughter is under severe strain and has exclusively learned the teenager was not invited to a recent Hawaiian vacation the Real Housewives of Orange County star took with her two younger children.

According to an insider, Tamra and her daughter Sidney have seen each other just a handful of times since the teen moved out of the home last October in favor of living with her father, Simon Barney.

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Tamra, her new husband Eddie Judge and kids Spencer, 13, and Sophia, 8, took a Hawaiian vacation last week, WITHOUT Sidney.

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"Sidney didn't go to Hawaii, in fact, Sidney has only seen her mother a total of 11 times since she moved out," a source told

On Tuesday night, Sidney confirmed the news, tweeting to her mother: "The reason I didn't go to Hawaii is because you didn't invite me and I wouldn't have gone anyway."

Simon made explosive allegations in legal documents pleading for child custody, exclusively published by on Tuesday, in which Tamra's ex claims she's guilty of child neglect — failing to bathe and feed the children properly.

In response, Tamra told the allegations were "bullish*t" and said the "truth will come out soon." The reality TV star then posted the following photo on her social media accounts:

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And when asked why Sidney wasn't in the Hawaii photo, Tamra tweeted:


But the estranged mother-daughter duo has been at odds for quite some time, as evidenced by exclusive text messages obtained by

"You treat me like sh*t," Tamra tells her daughter in one message (which were included in legal documents filed by Simon) and asks in another, "What have I done to you that you hate your own mother?"

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Tamra even pulls the legal mother card at one point.

"Answer me. I tried calling. You need to answer me. I’ve been very nice for months now. I have legal rights as your mother and I really don’t want to go that route," she texted.

"But if you refuse to communicate, you leave me no choice! For the life of me I can not understand why you are SO disrespectful to your own mother. Can you please answer me."

The insider concludes, "Sidney is a lot more stable without so much interaction with her mother."

There's more to come from the allegations Simon made in the legal documents, but for now, Tamra is staying close-mouthed on the controversy tweeting on Tuesday:



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