Janine Lindemulder has told RadarOnline.com that the only way that Jesse James and Kat Von D could have a marriage that would work was if it was an open relationship.
And James’ former wife – who is still involved in a bitter custody battle with him over their 7-year-old daughter Sunny – believes that he is showing his last wife, Oscar winner Sandra Bullock, ‘no respect’ by getting engaged so quickly to the famous tattoo artist.
In a blistering exclusive interview with RadarOnline.com Lindemulder warns the L.A. Ink star that she does not know ‘who or what’ she is getting involved with if she decides to marry Jesse James.
“Jesse certainly knows how to sweep a woman off her feet – but Kat better watch-out because she does not really know what she is getting into,” revealed Lindemulder.
“The only way that Jesse James and Kat Von D could have a marriage that would work was if it was an open relationship.
“At the end of the day Jesse is a pure narcissist – he needs to have some woman on his arm that will have people talking about him and keeping him in the spotlight – that is what he sees in Kat Von D.
“You do not have to be a genius to see that there is a pattern with me, Sandra Bullock and now Kat Von D.
“For Jesse and Kat to make all these announcements via Twitter was pretty disrespectful to Sandra Bullock – at least she is taking her time and trying to find herself and not just jumping into another marriage like Jesse James seems to be doing.
“I have never met Kat and I probably never will. Although I did not agree with everything Sandra Bullock did to me, she at least had the balls to phone me woman to woman but I doubt Kat will ever do that.
“Sandra was always a good influence on Sunny but I’m not so sure about Kat – but my daughter seems to like her as she talks about her make-up line and stuff like that.
“All I know is that Sunny needs constant people in her life not fancy material stuff with a constant stream of nannies.
“At the end of the day I’m her mother not Sandra Bullock or Kat Von D and I have to fight to get a relationship with her.”
Jesse James and Kat Von D sent shockwaves through Hollywood today when they announced their engagement.
The motor bike mogul told People.com: “You know sometimes the public and press gets it wrong. This is one of those times. 2010 was actually the best year of my life because I fell in love with my best friend.
“An amazing woman who stood behind me when the world turned their backs. I have never met anyone so kind and loving and committed to making the world a better place every day. My love for her is beyond description. So honored that she said ‘yes.’ Growing old with her is going to be a f**king blast!”
The West Coast Choppers star split with ex-wife Sandra Bullock in the spring of 2010, after it was publicly revealed he’d been cheating on the Oscar-winner. He finalized his divorce with Bullock during the summer, and promptly relocated from Southern California to Austin, Texas.
Lindemulder added: “I know people might think I’m bitter but believe me Jesse can be a very vindictive person, I know from personal experience
“He is still furious with me and I believe he is still angry with Sandra Bullock too after she did not take him back when he moved to Austin.
“Jesse will never admit it but if he had to choose between Kat and Sandra I’m sure that he would pick his last wife – he screwed that up big time and he knows it.
“At the end of the day if you are not the kind of woman who will do exactly what he wants then it is not going to work because it is all about Jesse James and nobody else.
“Good luck to Kat if she really wants to marry the guy – but she is really just a replacement for Sandra because of her profile – if they do ever get married I would not bet on it lasting because I’m not sure if Jesse has ever really loved any woman.”