The woman linked to Sandra Bullock’s husband in a cheating scandal took part in a seminar teaching men how to pick up and seduce women, and RadarOnline.com has exclusively obtained the video.
It’s yet another bizarre twist to the story that has dominated entertainment news headlines. Michelle "Bombshell" McGee claims to have had a nearly year-long affair with Jesse James, who released a statement Thursday not quite admitting to infidelity but apologizing to his wife and children and asking for their forgiveness.
Eric Von Sydow owns a strip club where McGee works and calls himself “Hypnotica, The Rock Star of Seduction.” Von Sydow uses strippers in a seminar he conducts teaching men how to approach women and increase their odds of hooking up with them.
In the video obtained by RadarOnline.com, McGee is one of three strippers who give sex, relationship and seduction tips and advice.
In words that seem applicable to her current situation, she says about women: “We like the unattainable... Absolutely the unattainable.”
Addressing the men in the audience she says: “Let her know you know, ‘I think you’re sexy’ then back off, because then we start thinking about what you just said.
“As soon as you act less interested the girls makes a more aggressive approach…So we want the unattainable. We want what we can’t have.”
McGee is divorced and said she had an affair with James, mostly while Bullock was out of town filming The Blind Side. She says she even met Jesse’s daughter Sunny and that she and Jesse texted each other regularly.
She did not, however, admit to being a stripper. But RadarOnline.com discovered that she worked at Larry Flynt’s club at two locations of Pure Platinum in San Diego.
In the seduction video McGee talks about how to approach her correctly – and what not to say.
When Eric asks her, ‘What’s the first tattoo you ever had?’, she is visibly annoyed.
“Honestly, I’ve been asked that over 100 times per night and it’s so redundant,” she says on the video. “It’s so obvious. Ask me something that’s not obvious, that’s what intrigues me because I have that response already waiting for you. It’s not going to make me interested in talking to you anymore.
“I get the same question all the time about my tattoos, and I have an instant response for you. ‘I just write you off immediately. I mean if you come up with something unique, it makes me want to ask him questions back. It makes me curious about you, like hey that was kind of cool what he said. You know, he thought of something different, something unique and it makes me want to talk to him more.”