EXCLUSIVE: Why Atlanta Housewife Kim Zolciak Split With Girlfriend

Real Housewives Of Atlanta star Kim Zolciak is finding out the hard way that dating a woman is just as tough as dating a man, RadarOnline.com can exclusively reveal.

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RadarOnline.com has learned that Kim’s girlfriend DJ Tracey Young has called for a time out on their relationship because she feels that the fiery blonde is unwilling to totally commit to her.

Mom-of-two Zolciak – who has been involved in a long term relationship with married businessman Lee Najaar (also known as "Big Poppa") - admitted recently that she was in fact bi-sexual and had been seeing Young too.

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But now it seems that Young has tired of her not being able to make a full commitment. A source close to Zolciak said: “They have split up because Tracey was sick and tired of her constantly going back to Lee Najaar.

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“Tracey is about to move from Los Angeles to New York and she wanted Kim to make more of a commitment but she was unwilling to do so and they have broken up as a result," the source added. “They are trying to remain friends but it looks like a long-term relationship between the pair is not going to pan out.

“Ultimately, it’s up to Kim though. She really has to make the decision but it seems that she has opted for Lee.”

Filming of the new series of Real Housewives Of Atlanta actually begins this week and viewers will see how Kim and Tracey’s relationship evolved.

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Popular DJ Young – who produced Zolciak’s surprise hit single Tardy For The Party – is helping guide her music career as she tries to prepare for life after her reality show.