Jesse Csincsak On Bachelorette, Ashley: 'What Is This Girl Doing?!!'

With that being said, here we go!

We began week 5 in the ancient city of Chiang Mai in Thailand with the one-on-one date with Ben F & Ashley. Ashley said she wanted to take the guys on REAL LIFE DATES so she took Ben to the market. Ben said he felt like he was on vacation with his girlfriend. This is one of the few dates this season I feel like is a REAL DATE not scripted, it was refreshing.

Later that day Ben & Ashley were near the ruins and apparently the Chiang Mai beliefs say you can't kiss at the ruins. Ben decided to follow the tradition, which in my opinion was CRAZY considering you are on a TV show trying to fall in love and you are not from Thailand. This, in my opinion means you don't have to follow their traditions.

KISS THE GIRL FOR GOD SAKES!

After a great day you then decided to get real deep and talk about how you have been an emotional zombie for 4 years since your dad passed. A little deep for me but apparently Ashley liked it because you got the rose!

Onto the group date:

Constantine, Aimes, Nick, Blake, Lucas, Ryan, JP & Mickey: Love is worth fighting for!

This date was my favorite thus far. The group went to Muay Thai Fighting. OK I took Kempo Karate for 11 years so this date hit home for me. By no means do I think fighting is the answer to everything. Most girls even think fighting is a turn off, including my wife. But if you are ever in a situation where you need to defend yourself, or in this case your girl, then it's good to know that you are capable of doing it!

Aimes claims he has never been in a fight in his life? Aimes you paid all that money for school at Harvard & Yale and you didn't take a self defense class?

The last time I checked catching an ass woopin is part of growing up!

I don't think any of these guys have ever been in a real fight. Everyone was freaking out when they saw the Muay Thai fighter get knocked out.

THEY ARE KICK BOXERS THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS!!! Mickey you should be ashamed of yourself bud we are from Cleveland, fistfights are part of living in that city.

The first fight was Blake vs. Lucas and from what I saw Blake did a pretty good job and he ended up winning.

The second fight was Mickey vs. JP. JP was the smaller guy and still won!!! Mickey I know some good Karate studios in Cleveland maybe you can trade some of my boys for cooking lessons!

The third fight was Aimes vs. Ryan P of course Ryan won.

Aimes ended up with a concussion and got sent to the hospital to get a cat scan on his DOME.

Aimes, buddy, you need to hire a self-defense instructor instead of taking lessons on your 15th language!!

The last fight was Nick vs. Constantine the BIG BOYZ. Constantine won which pretty much sealed the deal for sending Nick home because we really didn't hear another peep out of Nick until his exit speech.

When the cocktail party started Aimes was still at the hospital so was naturally the talk of the evening at first. Finally he showed up and everyone saw that he was OK.

Then after all the fighting and the super eventful day Ashley sat down and gave Blake the group date rose.

Onto the two-on-one date:

Ben C & William Guide Me To Love. William started out the date talking a lot of c*** on Ben C, making huge claims that Ben C is there for the wrong reasons and that he's ready to go home and hit the online dating sites.

What blows me away is that Ashley believed every word that William told her and immediately sent Ben C home!!

Ummmmmm did I miss something here? Michelle Money told Ashley before the show even started that BENTLEY was a huge douche and she disregarded it and decided to just do what she wanted.

Then when William started making claims on Ben C she just decided to send him home no questions asked.

Maybe we should have had William write Ashley a letter saying Bentley is trouble then maybe she would have listened? Maybe some of Ashley's girls can help me out this Tues 6pm PST on the Bachelorette Beatdown because I am just not understanding. What is this girl is doing?

I am not going to lie, I had my questions about William, I don't know him but because he is an Ohio boy I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. But this guy honestly reminds me of an 18-year-old kid from my high school.

I was glad Ashley sent him home on this date as well, it was time. The exit speech was the most depressing one yet. PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER!

Onto the cocktail party:

Ashley sat down with Chris Harrison and to cut a long story short she said she misses Bentley and that she wanted to ask him a few questions.

Without saying it, Harrison basically told her to get through tonight and he would get her a chat with Bentley!

Ashley then admitted that she knew people would think she was crazy for wanting to talk to Bentley but she just needs to do it.

Honestly I get that she needs closure and I don't think it is crazy. The thing I find a bit nutty is that she would take Williams word straight away but doesn't take the time to listen to her girl Michelle Money? Please feel free to enlighten me!