Jon Gosselin has been a bad, bad man. Don't take our word for it - read what he told, a glossy magazine.
"I regret my conduct," he says in an interview where he breaks the news that he wants to suspend his divorce from Kate for 90 days to restore their relationship and communication.
It all sounds sincere except for one thing - RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively that he never mentioned a word of it to Kate!
Their relationship has become so acrimonious that Jon never told Kate in person or on the phone. One source says that Jon sent a letter through an arbitrator, who was supposed to deliver it to Kate.
But another source close to the situation claims: "Kate learned about Jon wanting to slow down the divorce the same way everyone did, by reading about it. She was shocked and surprised."
Jon is being minimized by TLC, which is changing the name of Jon & Kate Plus 8, to Kate Plus 8, the network announced via press release Tuesday.
In a different press release issued Tuesday Jon said: "I regret my conduct since Kate and I separated. I used poor judgment in publicly socializing with other women so soon."
For those of you keeping score there was Deanna Humel (romance denied by Jon), Kate Major (romance denied by Jon), Stephanie Santoro (romance denied by Jon) and Hailey Glassman (romance confirmed by Jon).
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Meanwhile, Jon said in the Tuesday press release: "I asked my attorney to put the brakes on this divorce so I could try to regain control over the future of our family. So Kate and I could join on a cooperative course that would benefit our family - not destroy it."
Of course, you are free to leave your comments below indicating how sincere you believe Jon is on this matter!