So how do we, as a community, find and support Mike? I'll bite. I mean, he did the right thing, in the best way we knew how and I for one am all for it. If he was doing massage (ans I as there) I'd hire him in a heartbeat. Otherwise, he has my support, my thanks, and my admiration.

Ted wasn't merely a self-hating gay man (that's a prduct of his faith and his God), he was a devious hypocrite who not only pretended to lead his church while SERIOUSLY compromised (in his view), but he pretended to be ok when he was sunk in a cycle of sex and drugs.