Bravo’s Jersey girls are bringing the drama for season four of The Real Housewives of New Jersey, and Melissa Gorga is at the center of it all. “[Teresa Giudice] and I butt heads a lot,” she tells Star of what to expect for the rest of this season.

But spitfire Melissa is willing to take it like a champ from her sister-in-law. “She can slap me around!”

Melissa, who promotes Voli Light Vodka, jokes. “I’m going to deal with it because I want [my husband, Joe] to have a sister. I really try my hardest to please her in any way I can and take anything she gives me for my husband.”

“I get upset [with Teresa],” Joe admits. “It’s tough.”