EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW: Hailey’s Lesbian Lover Warns Jon, “She’ll Destroy You”
Jul. 16 2009, Published 10:15 a.m. ET
Watch out Jon Gosselin, your new young girlfriend will wreck your life!
That’s the warning issued by Joy Lawlor, who was Hailey Glassman’s lesbian lover for three years!
“You are wasting your time with Hailey. She’ll destroy you,” Joy said in an exclusive interview.
Click here to see new party photos of Hailey plus exclusive shots of Hailey with Joy
Hailey and Jon went public with their romance recently, after Jon and Kate announced they were ending their marriage on a ratings-grabbing episode of Jon & Kate Plus 8.
Jon, 32, took Hailey, 22, to France and they returned Tuesday. Details of Hailey’s wild past have thrust them into the spotlight.
But Lawlor warns Jon he has no idea what he’s stepped into and that Hailey is using him to become famous.
“The last thing Jon needs to do is stick around that woman,” Lawlor said in an exclusive interview. “She will use him to make herself famous and then she will leave him for someone else she can profit from.
“Anyone, be they male or female, is a target. She just wants to make people do whatever she wishes. That’s what she is going to do to Jon. The best thing he could do is get as far away as possible from her. She is toxic.”
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Joy, 23, was at student at Indiana University, when Hailey contacted her through MySpace.
“I was 18, studying biology and I put on my profile that I was a lesbian,” she said in the interview. “Hailey mailed me and said that she was interested in going to IU. She also said she was interested in lesbianism. When she finally joined IU she said it had mainly been because of me.
“We became close and began making out in my apartment. Soon she told me she loved me.”
But, says Joy, things started to go downhill for Hailey at the end of her freshman year when she became heavily-involved in drugs.
“It was Hailey who introduced me to cocaine and I did it with her in her dormitory room. She was also smoking marijuana,” said Lawlor.
Hailey was eventually arrested on multiple drug charges.
Click here to see Hailey’s mug shot and read about her drug arrest
Lawlor said about Hailey: “For a girl so young she was very wild, both for drugs and for sex. She kept saying that I was her first lesbian love but I didn’t believe her.
“I was having a great time with Hailey at IU and all my lesbian friends liked her. But having one girl clearly wasn’t enough for Hailey, she kept begging me to have threesomes with her and another girl.
“I was hurt by that because I thought Hailey had feelings just for me. I turned her down flat.” Hailey and Joy split up after Joy dropped out of IU. Joy said: “I was doing too many drugs with Hailey and partying too much. Hailey was just too wild for me.”
Joy admitted she was arrested for cocaine possession and put on probation. She stayed in Bloomington and began a relationship with another female IU student to whom she is now engaged.
“I’m engaged now so life is good for me,” Joy said.
“But I am speaking out because Jon Gosselin needs to know what he is getting himself involved in. “Hailey comes across as a smart, likable girl. But she is manipulative and destructive.”
Click here to see Jon and Hailey on a secret get-together before Jon and Kate announced they were splitting